July 2nd, 2008

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MYTH: Matt is whipped.

TRUE?

FALSE?

Answer: You decide

We had just flown into Dallas for a wedding and were meeting the guys at their hotel. We needed to carry our bags inside because we had to get changed for the wedding rehearsal. All the girls' luggage was taken up by some of the guys, but I found myself carrying my own duffel bag up to the hotel room and Matt was nowhere in sight.

To which Cindy made the comment, "How come Matt's not carrying your bag?"

"I don't know! I can't even find him!"

"How come we all think Matt's whipped? He's actually not!" Cindy exclaimed in surprise. (Haha).

I wasn't really sure at the time why we all thought Matt was whipped, but really, I never thought he was. I ask him to do things for me and sometimes he will, sometimes he won't. But he doesn't jump at my every whim like a trained dog. (but I wish! Jk).

So I spent the next couple of weeks investigating and observing him. And suddenly, two nights ago, the answer appeared! 

It's summer vacation now and I have been off from school for about a week and a half now! Before jet-setting around the world, I wanted to spend a couple of days with Matt. I'm down at his house and we had been playing rockband all weekend to the point where my eyes were crossing and drying out due to not blinking for minutes at a time. So I asked him if we could do something else besides play video games and I suggested that we watch a movie instead. He said, "Ok."

After dinner, we get home and before we pop the DVD into his xbox, he logs into xbox live and Halo 3 to show me some recorded footage from a game he played the other day. As if that impresses me. Please. But I indulge him and pretend to be interested. Heehe.  While we are watching scenes from his Halo game, his friends message him to get him to play. Matt tells me he needs to get on to tell the guys that he can't play.

"Hey guys, I just logged in to tell you I can't play," he informs his friends.

"LAME!!" they respond through the headset.

"Uhh..Caroline's sitting right next to me," Matt says

"Ohhh" and suddenly all his guy friends understand.

"Yeah, uhh.." and he looks at me nervously while saying this because he knows it might get him into trouble, "Caroline wants to watch a movie..."

Here we have it folks. The reason why everyone thinks he's whipped is because of Matt's deliberate presentation of the situation to his friends. He could have said, "Caroline and I agreed to watch a movie together instead..." and he wouldn't have made me seem so umm..dominatrix-ish?

Perhaps he's a little whipped (as most boyfriends should be), but is he as whipped as everyone thinks? You decide.